I am a
Treasury Manager at an investment company in Jamaica, which is part of a
leading multinational corporation. We always have the TV in the trading room on
the Bloomberg channel. Janet Yellen was giving her first public remarks as Fed
Chairman to the House Financial Services Committee on February 11, 2014.
Janet
Yellen is the 15th Chair of the Federal Reserve & the first
female Chair. She officially assumed office on February 3, 2014.
As we
listened to what she was saying and watching the effects on the financial
markets, I couldn't help but notice her outfit. She had on a nice jacket that
was quite fashionable I thought. She also wore a grey pearl necklace. She
didn’t wear the usual solid, boring colours that are normally worn by women in
government. It was quite refreshing & thought I’d share.
It is
a great thing that the great U S of A has a woman leading their economy. It
brought me back to a show I was watching where there were some women of the
view that women should not and cannot lead because we are too emotional and
that is how it has always been. They went on to say that most Fortune 500
companies have men at the helm.
Now
this really grinds my gears (Family Guy reference). I went to Immaculate
Conception High School- an all-girls Catholic high school in Jamaica. One thing
I especially loved my school for was that as women we were never to feel like
second class citizens or feel that there was anything we couldn’t do. We had a
lot of compulsory subjects and activities & many rules like not walking on
the lawn (this was to preserve the lovely lawns). Up to this day I feel weird
walking on a lawn but these things made us better women and well rounded.
I
digress. My point is I felt empowered. In college, it was kind of weird being
in a learning environment with males. I realized more the dynamic that because
I was a woman I should be quiet or let the men shine. This brings me back to
what I was watching on the show; I saw this in a lot of the women in college
and subsequently in the corporate world that they felt that men are the leaders
of the world and we women should just accept that. Even if a woman is more
qualified than a man, a woman should expect the man to get ahead.
This
is sad that women even think this way. I get it that it is a male dominated
society but this is just how we have been socialized since the beginning of
civilization. A man just decided he was better than a woman and that was it, it caught on. Thank God for the Feminist
movement, as we can do anything a man can do. The only limitation I can think
of is that they are physically stronger than us. We need to empower ourselves
as women to believe that we can do whatever we want to do and not
think that we can’t solely because we are women.
I’m
not saying give a woman a job just because she is a woman. I’m saying to end
sexism and have people accessed due to their skills and experience. Yes there
are some jobs better suited for men than women and vice versa. All that being
said, empowerment starts in the mind. Women put themselves at a serious
disadvantage by thinking they can’t do something before they even start and/or
regretting that they were born female.
I also
encourage women to be independent and not depend on a man especially
financially. You see it all the time women staying in truly unhappy and/or
abusive relationships due to them being financially dependent on a man.
This
is a topic I am passionate about as you can see. I could go on and on but I
will conclude by saying that women should:
·
celebrate
being women
·
stop
tearing each other down
·
believe
in & love themselves
·
be
independent
·
be
ambitious & pursue their dreams
Xoxo
Ronz
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